We all value different things. Control, possessions, community, status, romance, security, reputation, are some of them. It's not necessarily wrong to value any of those things so long as they are in the right order — and of course God is always meant to be first. We rarely get it all correct, which is why God is in the business of re-ordering our values, graciously by His Spirit.
Invite Him to show you what you value. Invite Him to rearrange what needs it.