Certain things in life will challenge, scare, agitate you. The savvy Christian says:
"Holy Spirit, what is this? What do I do with it?"
They say it because they know this to be true:
Some of the frustrations in life are to be eliminated and some of them are gifts from God that help us grow.
That person you can't stand... it could be an unhealthy relationship or a place God is calling you forward saying "I believe in you. You can handle this conflict." That circumstance you hate... it could be your responsibility to rearrange your life so it isn't there, or it could be that you need to look it in the eye and deal with it.
I trust you and God can sort it out.