Shaping a mindset is tough. This is especially true if it's been there a while or has trauma attached to it.
Getting a mindset to be correct is a bit like chiseling a statue of marble. It takes many, many small blows over an extended period of time. Generally, it doesn't happen all at once.
God is well aware of this process. In fact, he designed brains and is familiar with how they work. He knows all about the human psyche. So, take a deep breath in, and realize that God is probably working on correcting your mindsets slowly, bit by bit. And thankfully, like an artist He's careful, because He's quite fond of what He's working on.